As summer fades and the school bells ring, a mix of excitement and anxiety fills the air. For foster and adoptive families, this transitional period can produce additional emotional layers, as parents and guardians wonder how they can best support their child or youth through these changes. Fortunately, resources and strategies are available to help.
Advocating for your child or youth at school
Advocating for your child’s needs is crucial, especially for those who have experienced trauma. Melissa Sadin, a special education expert and adoptive parent, emphasizes the impact of trauma on learning in an article she wrote on the topic for AdoptUSKids. She provides insights on how to navigate the school system, including securing an Individualized Education Program (IEP) to support your youth’s unique needs.
Creating safe spaces for LGBTQ+ youth
School is a significant part of a youth’s community, and for LGBTQ+ youth, feeling safe and supported is essential. Research shows that LGBTQ+ students are at higher risk of bullying, which can require additional engagement from parents or guardians. Consider attending school board meetings and community discussions to advocate for policies that support your youth’s gender expression and identity. Ask school officials what they’re doing to provide the necessary support and protection. You can read more on our website about how to create an affirming home environment and what practical steps you can take to support their sexual orientation and gender expression.
Championing children with fetal alcohol spectrum disorder (FASD)
Children with FASD face unique challenges due to brain injuries caused by prenatal alcohol exposure. Barb Clark, a parent of a child with FASD, shares with readers in her article for AdoptUSKids how understanding these injuries impact the brain is vital. Traditional parenting strategies often fail, while a compassionate and informed approach benefits everyone. Additionally, she reiterates the importance of recognizing that your youth’s developmental age may differ from their chronological age and adjusting your expectations and support accordingly.
Tips for a successful school year
Regardless of your student’s unique experiences and situations, all children and youth deserve an advocate who is willing to take steps to ensure their success. Consider these tips below.
Communicate with educators: Establish open lines of communication with your child’s teachers and school staff. Share information about your student’s needs and strengths.
Promote a positive identity: Affirm your youth’s identity and personality. Support their interests, and provide opportunities for them to thrive.
Advocate for inclusivity: Push for policies that protect and support all students, especially those who are marginalized.
Provide emotional support: Ensure your child or youth feels safe and understood at home and in school. Emotional permanency is as important as physical permanency.
As the new school year begins, remember that your advocacy and support play a crucial role in your student’s success. By working together with educators and the community, you can help create an environment where they feel safe and supported and can therefore be ready to learn.
